Between the great things we cannot do and the small things we will not do, the danger is that we shall do nothing. -Adolph Monod
Speaking to a friend a few days ago, I lamented how weak my resolves of late have been, of things I’ve started but now reluctantly giving up or putting on hold, of feeling overwhelmed by all that I should do and the panic that ensued when I felt I’ve failed to push myself to get them right. Methinks the greedy philosophy is backfiring…
If I am to go slow, then I need to (re)start small. Baby steps. I cannot keep looking back at those which have gone wrong. Do-over moments are life fallacies. There are, however, don’t-repeat-bad-choices moments to live by. Afterall, life is the sum of all that we’ve been through, regardless of time, place or the people we were with. We are who we are.
But now, time to look forward. Set new (little) goals.
1. Set aside 15 minutes each night to reflect on the day, focus on the positive, and mentally prioritise tasks for the following day.
2. Learn a word a day. English, French, Arabic – who cares which language it is in?
3. Go away a weekend each month. See and experience something new. It doesn’t have to be far. Even a village nearby would do.
4. Cook and eat seasonal. (Note to self: prepare a list of what’s in season when)
5. De-clutter. Nothing good comes from hogging anything, not even love. You know as well as I do that obsessive love is unhealthy. In any case, love is not a collectible item. Just be grateful with all that you receive.
6. Be more a saver, less a spender. (Perhaps a tad contradictory to No 3 above, but hey, trips don’t have to be on the pricey end either. Got to balance things up but it can be done.)
7. Stop worrying about what others may or may not think of my weight. If someone tells me that I need to lose some, I’d thank him/her for the advice and move along.
8. Healthy body, healthy mind – time to get back into my jogging routine!
9. Stop procrastination. ‘Nuff said.
10. Free hugs, virtual or in real life. *Hugs*
11. Project Life. (I’m just throwing this in for now. It’s something I’m interested in but just an inkling. On principle, it’s a pretty good idea.)
12. Smile. Every day. Even when it’s tough to. :D
And no, these are not New Year’s Resolutions. These are life resolutions. And thank you for
listening reading my sudden revelations on improving my personal life. I’ll be back tomorrow with more thoughts on my roadtrip in Sri Lanka. See, part of the “stop procrastination” effort. ;)